Archive for August 2009
Issue 2 of Filament is available from 1st September. We are flying the flag here because there’s an article about Cover Watch in the mag – plus, well, a flagpole.
(It’s an American flag. And I’m not American. But that just happened to be the flag the sexiest guy was lying on when I did an internet search for pictures of sexy naked guys lying on flags. Me? I have the hardest job in the world.) Oh and he’s called Kristean Paerels.
PS We’re still taking a holiday from fighting the unstoppable tide of only women on erotica covers, but we’re still going to post candy – so check back every monday to satisfy your sweet tooth and wash away the bitter taste left by all those images of headless, bare-assed babes in PVC corsets that we’re supposed to identify with.
Erotica Cover Watch are holidaying right now so if you want to hang by the pool till we return, please do. The view’s lovely.
The man with the beautiful back and excellent legs is model, Simon Lloyd (no relation), whose website is here. I found it fascinating to take a peek into the world of the man behind the image, even (especially) if a lot of the peeking was via more sexy images.
There’s an interesting post on Carnal Nation about male nude modelling and the taboos on the naked male body.
And a great post about Filament on Male Submission Art where maymay declares that magazines and sites which ‘acknowledge a female gaze, are stepping stones to more than just access to quality erotica for women, but also to a healthier and happier sexual self-expression for men.’
See? Everybody wins!
Back soon. Kristina x
While I don’t wish to be premature, with just 16 copies to sell, it looks as if it’s ‘boners are go’ for Filament magazine!
This has been an amazing campaign. It’s not over yet but, damn, I’ll buy those 16 copies myself if need be. Thanks to everyone who’s given their support, bought the mag and helped spread the word. You are fabulous!
If you missed it, Mathilde and I had a piece about Filament published in The Guardian last week. Not only was it hugely popular, generating much debate, we also got pecs on the front page! (Click here for a bigger pic.)
OK, I’ve finished with the words. You can now scroll back up. Wet
sex god man is by Cover Watch favourite, Fred Goudon. I know, I came a little bit too when I saw it.
** UPDATE! Filament have hit their target! I AM SO FUCKING HAPPY!**
Fleshbot, ed. Lux Alptraum, pub. Gawker Media
Watched by Mathilde Madden
(This is a bit of a departure, but bear with me.)
We have been following the coverage of Filament’s attempt to get it up as it has swept the net. It’s had a lot of support which has been great and very well deserved. I was delighted to see the campaign mentioned on Jezebel – a softly feminist women’s issues type blog which I am a big fan of. Jezebel is run by Gawker media who have a number of blogs that follow a very similar template. Io9 is another Gawker blog I love and there are a whole bunch more. All these blogs collect news from around the web that relate to whatever their particular thing is and run it with commentary. Sometimes, if an item is of interest to more than one Gawker blog the mini write up on the front page of one will link directly to the article on another. Which makes perfect sense. Which is why, when I saw the Filament campaign on Jezebel’s front page the link to read the whole story told me it would take me directly to Fleshbot Gay.
Fleshbot is another Gawker blog that collects news on all things sexy and porny. I don’t read Fleshbot but I knew about it. But, huh? Filament was on Fleshbot Gay?
I did some digging and it turns out that Fleshbot has two filters Straight and Gay. If you go to the home page here and click those tabs you can see how they work. Click Straight and all the guys vanish. Click Gay and all the girls are gone.
Click Straight to get girls and Gay to get guys?
Hands up if you can spot the sexism.
Which of course explains why Filament – a magazine for straight women – was filed under Gay. All the readers of this blog are assumed to be men. Penises are of interest to which kind of men? Oh, yes. Gay ones.
So, because I am a fearless warrior for equality, I then had this email conversation.
First I emailed Jezebel
From: Mathilde Madden
Re: Filament Mag and Fleshbot
I seriously hope this is not the only email you get about this. Yesterday you linked to a piece about Filament magazine’s struggle to be the first UK magazine to show erections in a mag aimed at women. It was covered on fellow Gawker media site Fleshbot. IN THE GAY SECTION!
This is outrageous. Filament magazine (and my own blog Erotica Cover Watch – which has covered a lot of Filament’s campaign) are precisely about the fact that women are never allowed to be the consumers of sexualised imagery. That all ‘straight’ imagery is of women and all ‘gay’ imagery is of men. I cannot believe such blatant sexism passed without comment on Jezebel and am seriously considering my position as a regular reader.
Jezebel passed my complaint to Fleshbot editor Lux Alptraum
To: Mathilde Madden
From: Lux Alptraum
Re: Filament Mag and Fleshbot
Fleshbot.com is a website that covers all sorts of erotica, for all sorts of people. Because we recognize that our readership appreciates the ability to filter out content that’s not to their liking, we offer the option to separate the site into two sections: one that primarily focuses on naked women, and one that primarily focuses on naked men. In the parlance of the larger porn industry, these distinctions are referred to as “straight” and “gay”–though we don’t always agree with that, we’ve adopted that parlance for the ease of our readers. However, it’s worth noting that many people–particularly straight women who look at the site–browse it in its entirety, without the filter.
When I received the request from Filament magazine about their fundraiser, I had to decide where to put it. After some debate, I opted for the gay section, knowing that a) the article would still appear on the front page of Fleshbot.com, and be viewable by any women who wanted to see it and b) gay men, who might be equally interested in providing funding to this noble cause, would be more likely to filter out straight posts, and thus less likely to see the post if I put it there. Frankly, I was merely trying to maximize the post’s audience–which, for the record, was also why I asked to splice it to Jezebel, where I felt it would reach even more people who might be interested in helping out.
That said, the post on Jezebel should have had [Fleshbot]. not [Fleshbot Gay] as the tag at the end–that’s a bug I’ve asked to have fixed.
However: had this not been the train of events that led to the post, one of my gay writers could very well have picked up the story, and decided to write about it themselves–and frankly, I fail to see how someone expressing an interest in helping women to see the kind of erotica they desire could be labeled “sexist.”
I appreciate your concerns, and hope that my explanation helps sort things out. As a woman who’s interested in creating a world where everyone has access to the type of erotic media that titillates them, Filament’s cause is important to me. It was not my intention to offend anyone by publicizing it the way I did, and I’m sorry to know that my actions gave you offense.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know that being featured on Fleshbot – a very hight traffic blog – was a great thing for Filament. I really appreciate Lux writing about it and believe that she is committed to featuring material that engages with female desire. Sadly I think having something so basic and nuts and bolts as the filters on the site so explicitly erasing women as potential viewers of erotic material undermines what she’s doing.
Anyway, I wrote back.
To: Lux Alptraum
From: Mathilde Madden
Re: Filament Mag and Fleshbot
Thank you for taking the time to reply. I hope this email will provoke some interesting conversations. I write erotica and am a huge supporter of erotic materials for women. I would love to see Fleshbot embrace women as consumers of erotica. Some women will find their way to sites like yours and be happy to ignore obvious exclusion. But others won’t.
If you don’t agree with the larger porn industry (you are a part of that industry, btw) labeling naked women as ‘straight’ and naked men as ‘gay’ why on earth do you reinforce it? Would it be so hard to call your sections something like ‘men’ and ‘women’. Where do you file the lesbian porn? (Don’t answer that). Perhaps straight women use your site without filters it is because you ask them to mindfuckeringly call themselves ‘gay’ in order to see naked men.
Support for Filament aside, what you are doing is sexist as you are erasing women as viewers, whilst no doubt being more than happy for them to be the viewed, by basing your categories only on the orientation of a perceived male viewer. If it’s about erections file it under GAY! If you are truly for everyone perhaps you should reconsider how you present your erotica rather than simply asking Jezebel to hide the problem by changing the tag – maybe it runs a little deeper.
Thanks again for listening. I don’t mean to bug the hell out of you – but I feel very strongly about this subject.
This is Lux’s reply (last email, promise).
The straight/gay divide long predates me (Fleshbot is almost six years old, I’ve been writing for the site for two years, and have served as an editor less than one). Whatever issues I may have with it, it is not within my power to remove or replace it–that is a decision made at a much higher level than the one that I work at. What is within my power, however, is the ability to promote good content that’s feminist and appeals to women–which I do on a regular basis (much of which is not marked gay: http://fleshbot.com/5034452/you-asked-for-it-hot-straight-men–and-the-women-who-fuck-them).
Frankly, any attempt to filter/divide content would offend someone. If I labeled posts “men” and “women,” I would run into issues with trans and genderqueer performers. I would prefer to eliminate any distinction at all, and just force everyone to wade skim through every post, but that would likely alienate even more of my readership.
Just an aside but I looked at the post mentioned above and it does feature men under the straight section. But every one of them is pictured with a woman and the introduction to the post features a bit of ‘calm down guys, there are women here too’ phrasing along with the charming detail for female viewers that the women need to be in these pictures or how else could we tell these guys were straight. Um, what?
To me it seems clear that the problem here is exactly the same as the one we write about over and over on Cover Watch. Straight Men must be saved from the peen! I don’t know how I missed it but straight men are made of damp tissue paper. So of course they need a special filter, as do gay guys, to keep them safe from sexy images of their non-preferred gender. Women don’t get a filter. They probably don’t ask for one. Hey, we’re still struggling to be allowed to look at a picture of a man who’s pleased to see us. And, sure, women do look at sites like these without any filter, but, really, what choice do they have?
I think it’s interesting that Lux says that the Gay/Straight filters long predate her and are something that are porn industry wide. Because, the thing is, erotica and porn and sexy stuff used to be exclusively for the boys. Stuff like these filters used to make sense – but they don’t anymore. Or, they don’t if sites like Fleshbot want to welcome female viewers.
And it’s the same with erotica book covers.The endless girlie covers used to make sense when only men bought them. But now women are part of the target market (and the authors are often actual women – not men using female pseudonyms), it’s unfair, dated and sexist to keep on marketing as if all readers are men. Especially when you get a parade of cheesecake every year on the cover of Best Women’s Erotica.
Some people only like one gender. I’m one of them. It’s great to be able to filter a site like Fleshbot and get what I want. It’s horrible that to use a site like this I would have to do some kind of reverse engineering insanity. I like men. If I were a man who liked men I’d be gay. Therefore I click gay. Seriously, filters like this tell female viewers they need to imagine their preferences from the point of view of a man to enjoy the site. That’s fucked up.
Really, I do not see why these filters couldn’t be renamed ‘men’ and ‘women’. Because I still can’t figure out what they do with the lesbian porn.
Things like this (and the erotica book cover situation) make me feel like, as a woman, I am allowed through the door of the erotica and porn industry to have a look around and even get turned on, but only because straight men like the idea of me being there and being turned on. Not because anyone cares about me as a human being with desires. Because when acknowledging me as a viewer means making even the tiniest concession that might affect the default male viewer there’s no budging.
*NEWSFLASH! We have a piece about Filament’s battle in today’s Guardian: check it out! Join in comments!
I’m going for something softer after last week’s hard cock. (NSFW!)
Mathilde is here on Thursday looking at what happened when Filament’s campaign went off-track (through no fault of their own).
If you’re asking ‘what campaign?’ you must have been living under a rock. Filament are on a mission to get erections printed in their second issue. Check out their amazing progress here and buy issue 1 if you haven’t already. Time’s running out! Chop chop for hard cock!
Yesterday (NSFW!), we drew attention to Filament’s struggle to get hard-ons into print. Huh? And this is what century? Today, we’re a step closer to seeing hard-ons happen. Filament now need just over 300 people to buy issue 1, enabling them to afford a printer who doesn’t have the willies about wang.
If you haven’t bought your copy of Filament 1, buy now!
This would be a UK first: a print magazine aimed at women featuring beautiful men with boners. Wow! So please: put your money where your mouth is and make this a moment where Filament and its readers go down in history.
Filament ships to anywhere in the world. If you can help us spread the word, please do. Filament 2 is due out in September. Surely you want the hard stuff in your hands. I know I do!
NSFW: Not Safe For the World
Filament, the magazine believing ‘women have brains and are visual’, are struggling to get it up. After a much publicised and hugely successful launch in June, Filament, in response to reader demand, had planned to include photos of guys with erections in their second issue (September). Their printers, however, have refused.
If it were as simple as finding another printer, Filament would have done so. Unfortunately, printers willing to challenge the taboos surrounding hard cock are charging prices beyond the reach of a new, small publisher. If that weren’t bad enough, Filament have been turned down by numerous UK distributors, all refusing to handle a women’s magazine featuring – OMG! – a guy on the cover.
It’s an absolute fucking scandal.
If you want to support Filament, please subscribe to the mag or, at the very least, buy their fascinating first issue (check out Janine Ashbless’s review; see The F-Word’s assessment; read what we had to say). As we all know, the amount of erotic visual material aimed at women is appallingly low while images of sexy women saturate our culture. It really sucks (ahem) that a publisher attempting to challenge and change this imbalance, is being blocked at so many turns.
Please buy Filament! Issue 1 is available now and issue 2, out next month, will feature a cracking article from Erotica Cover Watch. A piece on sexy texting will include several messages I’ve received but hopefully anonymously or I’ll be blushing all the way to issue 3. An article on male burlesque performers promises to be mighty interesting too. Will there be hard cock? We don’t yet know. But what’s clear is the more women who show they want sexy images of horny men by subscribing to the mag, the more likely this will happen.
Think of it as an Erection Campaign. Vote now!
ETA 5 Aug: Filament now have a fundraising page! 285 copies sold will buy them a printer who takes cock. Watch the temperature rise!
Thanks to the ever-fabulous Male Submission Art for the beautiful boner.
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